Whether you are the type of woman who believes in herself and always thinks that she can or you are the sort to give up easily and fail to maintain a strong sense of self-esteem, both are correct.

While most women think that the world around them is holding them back from true success, it is your own beliefs you hold about yourself, about who you are and what you can do that will keep you from achieving what you want in life.

If you instill these beliefs in yourself, there is no limit to what you can achieve.


Put these ideas into practice as soon as possible.


I Have All The Resources I Need

We are all born with the tools and resources that we need to make the most out of our lives. Instead of creating mental conditions that lead to failure, focus on training your mind to believe that you are fully equipped with the skills you need to get the most out of life. Everything that you need to be successful is inside of you.


There is no failure, only feedback

While you are not going to succeed at every endeavour that you attempt, each of these failures should be treated as a learning experience. Failure says nothing about you, only how you went about things. No success takes place without a preceding failure and you should be asking yourself what you’ve learned from the process, so that you can succeed next time.


Thoughts = Outcomes

When you allow your mind to think in a certain way, you are creating what is known as a self fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that you will fail, you are going to fail. If you believe that you will succeed, your mind will find a way to get the job done.


You are not your behaviour

Every behaviour you do, no matter how strange or destructive it is, is actually being done for your benefit. There is no point in blaming other people or even yourself for how you behave. What you need to do is to examine the behaviour, establish what it is trying to do for you, and find a different way of getting the same effect.


Procrastination Is The Enemy

The only way to guarantee failure is by becoming stagnant. While success is never guaranteed in any endeavour that we embark on, we can guarantee our own failure by refusing to get started in the first place.


We Create Our Own Success

No one becomes successful by waiting for someone else to make it happen for us. When you make an honest effort to get started and set the process in motion, more doors are likely to open for you. While some believe in the presence of good luck, good luck is merely the residue of hard work. Being willing to create your own fortune is key.

When you have beliefs that are rooted in self-doubt and a lack of belief, your mind will work tirelessly to make sure they come true.


By making the right mental decisions each day and instilling the right beliefs in yourself, you can set yourself up for success over the long term.

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Seila Chapman - Founder of We Are Relationship.

Transformation Coach & Self-Image Expert

I am passionate and serious in helping people create their best self, authentic, empowered, powerful and dynamic to achieve health, wealth and success and get more living and loving out of life!